He has brought up a BIRD to pick out his own eyes

Meaning & Analysis

He has reared or favored someone (or something) that turns on him and harms him, like a bird he raised that now attacks his very eyes.

Insights

Nurtured betrayal

Kindness or patronage bestowed on an ungrateful recipient rebounds as injury; the beneficiary becomes the aggressor.

Self-sabotage

What one cultivates—habits, schemes, dependencies—can mature into the instrument of one’s own undoing.

Toxic mentorship

Training a protégé without boundaries equips a rival; power and skill conferred upward can displace or wound the giver.

Domestic ingratitude

Applied to children or kin who, having been sustained, repay with contempt or harm—filial revolt recast as ocular assault.

Peril of indulgence

Uncritical favor—excusing faults, feeding appetites—breeds entitlement that later attacks its source.

Eye as vulnerability

Eyes signify sight, dignity, and agency; to ‘pick out the eyes’ dramatizes maximal injury—betrayal that blinds the very judgment that enabled the relationship.

Classical and fable kin

Parallels ‘to rear a serpent in one’s bosom’ (Aesopic farmer and viper) and Roman warnings about raising wolves; the cuckoo’s brood-parasitism sharpens the avian irony—one rears a chick that ejects the host’s own young.

Romance warning

Lodge’s *Rosalynde* casts desire itself as the hand-reared bird: infatuation, nursed to strength, injures the lover who raised it—love as self-armament against oneself.

Reciprocity ethics

The proverb patrols the social contract of benefaction: gifts imply gratitude and restraint. When these fail, justice names the result ‘perverse’ and counsels future prudence.

Governance and design

Organizations often ‘build birds’—tools, teams, successors—that can later peck their makers. Good design includes checks, alignment of incentives, and graceful succession to avoid creator-harm.

Diagnostic humility

Not every reversal is malice; poor discernment in choosing whom to favor is part of the moral. The saying invites self-scrutiny about flattery, pity, and boundary-setting.

Rhetorical Devices

Extended metaphor

Rearing a bird figures the long nurture of a person or project; the sudden pecking embodies the shock of betrayal.

Hyperbole

Eye-gouging exaggerates harm to underline the extremity of ingratitude and the folly of careless favor.

Irony

Care meant to protect becomes the cause of injury; the nurturer arms his own assailant.

Antithesis

Nurture versus harm, benefactor versus attacker—stark oppositions heighten the moral drama.

Imagery

Visceral, visual detail (‘pick out his own eyes’) fixes the warning in memory with a wince-inducing picture.

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Analyzed with gpt-5.0-thinking on November 14, 2025

Transcription

Quotations

In liking Rosalinde thou hatchest vp a bird to pecke out thine owne eyes.

1590, LODGE, Rosalinde, p. 33

(He hath bred a bird).

1639, CL., p. 170

I know you have hatched up some chickens that now seek to pick out your eyes.

1662, FULLER, Worthies Lancashire, I 543
1670, RAY, p. 165

You bring up a bird to pick out your own eye.

1672, WALK., 69, p. 53
1732, FUL., no. 1864

Original Scan

He has brought up a BIRD to pick out his own eyes - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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